Which is the best sex toy for women to achieve orgasm?

There are so many different types of sex toys available today for women and each works to create a different kind of pleasurable stimulation. To spend your money wisely, it's best to learn which ones produce what kind of orgasms and how to find value in the adult pleasure product marketplace.

If you're like us, you'll enjoy more than one type of orgasm and have several products to suit each mood for the best sex wellness practice.  

A decade ago, you might have had to choose between these sensations, but new, emerging categories of sex toy are on the rise, combinations that vibrate and penetrate, even automatically.

But remember, the pleasure products that work best are designed for a specific purpose and result. If you are new to sex toys and want to experiment with a variety of different functions in one product, there are many economical entry level models.

Learn more about how these types of sex toy work from the creators of The Thruster, a revolutionary thrusting, vibrating dildo and discover if you should stick to the tried-and-true magic wand vibrating toy or should you attempt a self-thrusting sex toy?

Read on to learn about how different types of sex toys work, and how to listen to your body to determine what will work best for you.


The 3 most common orgasms for women and how to achieve them.

  1. Vaginal Orgasm: Frequently described as a body orgasm and may include g-spot orgasm, it develops internally with a good partner or the use of dildo for penetration. These are hard to achieve because it may take a significant time to reach naturally and finding your "right spot" takes plenty of self-exploration before you can even begin to point another person to find it. Stamina is an issue for many male partners and as enjoyable as many new dildos for women may be, arm and wrist fatigue, with a manual dildo that moves in and out, will cause most users to stop before reaching climax.
  2. Clitoral Orgasm: These orgasms are easy and fast to achieve for most persons with female genitalia. External wands and clit sucking sex toys are the most common sex toys for clitoral stimulation. Most external vibrators like bullets are intended to deliver the same stimulus but are using smaller motors and discreet packages that are more compact. We are a fan of the original magic wand, as it was the most popular sex toy of the 1980s. What's not to love? Generally anything with a big motor and big battery are going to deliver satisfaction but sex tech today offers lots of fun options which are more modern and fun. 
  3. Anal Orgasm: Typically, this not where you start when exploring self-pleasure or partner masturbation but if you have gotten to it, you know the joy. Unlike the easy-peasy clit orgasm, anal stimulation requires extra care. A self-care routine that involves making the space clean and ready for penetration is a must. As is the use of your favorite lube. 
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When it comes to sex toys, you should know the adult pleasure products that you use inside and out. Materials, construction, warranty. Many very cheap knock -off are being made and the quality is not the same. You always get what you pay for with adult sex toys. Both thrusting and vibrating sex toys are made based on very simple principles of design but quality of components and engineering matter. 


Every women should have a clit sucking sex toy for fast and easy external orgasms 

Vibrators and air-suction clitoral stimulators come in all sorts of intensities and materials and price ranges. So it always takes some trial and error to find the perfect one for you. Inside, though, they’re pretty much all the same. They’re powered by eccentric rotating mass vibration motors, which are just motors that wobble. The more wobble, the more vibration!

With regards to clit vibes, the bigger motor and bigger battery models are going to be stronger and cost more. They are typically worth it and a good quality vibe should last users years and years.

For Clit stimulators, air-suction or air pressure, this is not as true. The sucking type clit massagers generally work well even the cheap ones like the Rose Sex Toy.   

Thrusting Dildos are for women that want to achieve vaginal orgasms through internal penetration

Thrusting sex machines automatically move in and out, and create the thrusting or stroking sensation of a male penis to emulate the sensation of intercourse. We invented the sex tech and patented the drive which make its not stall and allows it to flex while extended! This makes it so much more fun to use and enjoy. It's possible to feel the texture of each silicone top against the outer vulva as it moves back and forth automatically and presses while thrusting. You use hand to manipulate it around to hit the right spots while saving your arm and hands from stroking back and forth.

They used to be only available in these large floor systems what had a long steel rod sticking out where you would mount your dildo. If you haven't tried one, its fun until you get jabbed by that steel rod while getting comfortable or pulling out.

We, Velvet Thruster, developed the first handheld thrusting sex machines that are strong enough to not stall while a female is trying to achieve a vaginal orgasm, it can be also used for male or female anal thrusting. For P-spot pleasure, check out Walter our beaded silicone top for anal thrusting which fits Velvet Prime.

Different types of thrusting sex toys use different technologies to produce “thrust,” but Velvet Thruster has patented technology used for the first time in a thrusting sex toy. 3 inches of thrust make our Thrusters the most formidable handheld thrusting vibrator dildos available today.


Why They Feel So Good!

Because of their different ways of interacting with your body, thrusting, clit sucking and vibrating sex toys all feel good for different reasons.

Clit Sucking Sex Toys

Clitoral stimulation is fast way to get to orgasm and generally sucking sex toys do just that. Work fast. These wicked wonders which ever vulva owner should have are magic they suck so perfect compared to human attempts. Be cautious though, these toys are directly contacting your sensitive nerve ending, make sure the material feels good on your skin. And know, until you know your limit with each toy, your little clit bud make get sore if you go to long and hard sucking it with a sex toy.  

Vibrating Toys

Vibrators, whether used on the penis, clitoris, or vulva, stimulate nerves hidden way deep underneath the skin, releasing far more endorphins than other forms of touching. That means not only are vibrating toys great for orgasms, but they’re also ultra-conducive to happiness!

Thrusting Toys

For thrusting sex toys it is more obvious: they feel good because not only do they imitate the feeling of real sex, hitting those deep spots, but they are also tireless, more “thrusty”, and faster than your average sex partner! For as long as you can play, it can play with you.

Different Types of Thrusting and Vibrating Sex Toys

There are many different types of thrusting and vibrating sex toys available on the market. To experience the range of sensations available to you, try experimenting with various kinds in each category.

Vibrating Toys

  • Bullet vibrators: the smallest women’s toy and the best way to a quick n’ easy orgasm.
  • Vibrating butt plugs/dildos: vibration in the anus activates all those oft-neglected nerves deep in your butt. You’ll be amazed at how good this feels.
  • Vibrating dildos: the vagina is much less sensitive to vibrations than the vulva or clitoris. Ladies, make sure to get a vibrating dildo with bunny ears or an anal attachment included for best results!

Thrusting Toys

  • Dildos: there are some dildos on the market capable of thrust, mimicking a real penis. Compared to regular dildos, they’re a completely different type of sex toy in that they’re often completely hands-free! Just lay back and enjoy.

Toys That Thrust and Vibrate

  • Thrusting vibrator dildos: the Velvet Thruster provides 3 inches of thrust, intense vibration (especially at the tip) and a flexible shaft. They encompass all the power of a floor-standing sex machine without the bulk. There’s nothing like it anywhere on the market.

Which One Is Right For You?

Now that you know the difference between these two different types of sex toys, you’re ready to answer the most important question: which one is right for you? The world of sex toys is one that requires a lot of experimentation and trial-and-error, so no matter where you choose to start, it’s best to keep your horizons open for new toys to try. The end goal is a drawer full of different types of sex toys that you absolutely adore! That being said, here are some suggestions that might help you choose your first/next toy:

If you’re…

  • Discreet: go with a vibrating toy such as a bullet vibrator. Thrusting toys are all dildo-sized and their purpose tends to be quite obvious, so you won’t be able to enjoy those until you’re willing to be loud and proud!
  • Insatiable!: only the toys that leave you twitching will do! That means you need thrust AND vibration. You’ll enjoy the thrusting vibrator dildo Frankie, whose bulbous head hits the deepest targets and gets the job done.

In a relationship: couples can get the most out of their sex lives by experimenting with different types of sex toys. The best sex toys for couples are those that put someone in control of the other. Try a thrusting dildo, to give your partner double the action!

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